Is it easy?
Typically.
I love that she has her voice, that she uses her voice, that when anyone comes for it, she stands taller now.
Doesn’t mute herself.
Or try to lie first.
Would I have preferred that pigeon who I laid out get more than a minor league suspension, a fine, and sexual harassment rehabilitation classes?
Yes.
Except it wasn’t aboutme.
It wasn’t about whatIwanted – especially since no charges were filed in my direction.
It wasn’t about whatIthought was best.
And I got that.
Mil on the other hand?
He’s still struggling tounderstandthat concept as well as letting her speak for herself.
It’s an ongoing process, a lot like repairing the fractured trust that came from hiding the topic of us.
But similar to everything else in life – including the harder miles in our own relationship – it’ll get better with pracky.
And it’ll be worth the work.
It certainly is to me.
Because at the end of all, that’s what makes the tuneskie Gillybean and I make together so much sweeter than anything else out there.
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